The amount of space inside a tetrahedron of four oxygens is significantly smaller than the space inside an octahedron of six oxygens. This difference governs the size of the cation that can fit in the sites. Small, highly-charged cations like Si4+ and AI3+ like the tetrahedral site, while larger cations such as Fe2+ and Mg2+ prefer the octahedral, 6-coordinated site.